can you please take a seat. or not.

A couple of friends told us that our wedding would be a very first wedding for them to attend in their life(!). That is a huge honor for us!
But, our wedding is nothing "traditional". far from "traditional", so hopefuly it will be ok for them. I just don't wanna disappoint them! They may expect like this wedding... (I had been to so many weddings from "traditional" to "non-traditional" :)

Our ceremony will be held at a park, and we are considering having "standing ceremony" style. like below.

they have chairs for only first row (prob. for families?). We both like this style.

via 100 layer cake

I also like this 'sitting on the ground" style, too.

何人かの友達が私たちの結婚式が初めて出席する結婚式だと言ってくれて、おぉそれはちゃんとしなければ！（何を？）と思っているのですが。

ただ、私たちの式ってすごーくゆるーいカジュアルなものなので、これでいいかしら？（何が？）と思っております。まぁパーティの延長？って感じですかねー。

あまり、気負わないでね。みんなで楽しみましょーって雰囲気になると思います。

式もスタンディングスタイルなんて、いいかなーとアレックスと話し合っております。お楽しみに・・・