Who should walk me down the aisle?

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I'd never worried about it. don't know why while many of brides were torn between "dad" or "step-dad"or something like that.
I don't have father since I was little and I'm not the person who cares "traditional" thing, so I always think like " yeah, maybe do by myself or with my fiance?".
Alex agreed with my idea walking two of us. But I kinda started to think like "how about with my mom?". only if she wants it. she is super shy, so I'm not sure if she can handle that situation.
So, I emailed her if she wants to do that. Then she emailed me back and said "What are you talking about??? I told you that your uncle will do that. He is going to fly all the way from Japan only for the reason!!". (He is going to stay here for just 2 nights!!!)
ahhh, I didn't know that.... ahhh, what am I gonna do? It's not like I don't want to...
I never in million years thought that I would have this "who should I pick?" moment in my life.
haha, funny :)
at the end, my mom wrote me, "it's your wedding. once in your life. you can do whatever makes you happy.".
Still don't know what to do....




日本で言うバージンロードってやつですか？そこを誰と歩くか悩むなんて思ってもなかったんですが。多分一人で歩くかアレックスとと考えていたんですが、最近むくむくとおかんと歩いてもいいかなーと思ってきたので、もし恥ずかしくなければ、歩く？って聞いてみたところ。
「いまさら」というタイトルで返信が。（うちのおかんはいつも気を引くタイトルつけるのがうまい）「〇〇兄ちゃん（これ、うちのおかんの弟）が歩くって言うたやんか！何を言よん。やけんわざわざアメリカまで2泊で行くんやろ！」ときた。はー、知らんかった。ってか、聞いてないし！
いや、とってもありがたいことなんですよ。「自分が父親のつもりで出席する」と、嬉しそうに言ってたらしいので。でも、どーしよー。何回かのメールのやり取りの後、おかんは「あんたの式やけんね。一番自分が楽しめると思うことしたらええよ」って言ってましたが。
うーん、どーしよーか悩む。