wedding traditional

I just don't get it.

Why people still want "classic-cheesy" moment at their wedding??

It doesn't matter where they are from (US or Japan, anywhere), I think every country has some classic-embarrassing wedding moments... I have been to 7-8 weddings (in US & Japan) in my life and those experiences gave me some ideas what I do NOT want to do. Thank god, I learned.

Here is the list I do NOT need:

they seem really happy.... not me. "garter removal & toss"

eeeeewwww, Japanese classic. "candle service"

NO. Just no smashing. so classic...

Sorry, if I offended someone. It's just my "not to do" list.

なんか結婚式って恥ずかしい事がいっぱいあると思うんだけど、どうして人はついついやってしまうんでしょうかね？私は出来るだけ後で恥ずかしい思いをすることはしたくない！キャンドルサービスとかケーキ食べさせ合うときに相手の鼻にクリームつけちゃうとか・・・・

って、一番は酔っ払わないようにするだけか、私の場合。